Am i over thinking?

I am not sure if im overly sensitive or what but this is what happen.

Just a moment ago i received a phone call from him. Telling me they (his family and him) are going to have dim sum breakfast tmr.
And this is how he said it: "my mom said tmr go dim sum wor"
So i replied "oh okay"
Then i realise and asked "wait.. are u telling me only or asking me along too?"
Him : "i think you should come"
Apparently... his mother did not specifically ask him to invite me..
Then before i could talk further our conversation was interupted by the mother talking to him so we decided to put down the phone first...

To me... this is superbly embarassing..
i wouldnt wanna be a part of anything without invitation..
Self-invite is the last thing i would do..

So when he called me back..
he said he mention about bringing me to that breakfast tmr morning n the mom said okay
but this doenst mean anything to me anymore..
insulting actually..
maybe im taking this too seriously but......... try to put on my shoes?..

he sounded dissapointed.. and im so sure.. he dont know what to do
n again he just said its up to me.. whether i want to join or not..

so freaking unfair kind of attitude..
because if the same thing happen to him..
i would've ask properly at the first place
n say, if this shit happens..
i would've explain better and fight for his every rights and not feel left out..
i would've keep asking him to come n telling him that he is thinking too much..
keeping quiet seems like agreeing silently!

so..

pride comes first

i am NOT joining the breakfast!


edited**
yes i over think......
turns out he thought we need not mention stuff like that
since we're so close already n together all the time..
but to me im merely drawing a line between his terms of "family" AND "me"


anyway,
i will still draw a line in the future..
because there are a difference..
im not "the family".. very clearly cause its a fact..